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Lancelot Larkham
of South Kingstown & Richmond, Rhode Island
and Voluntown, Connecticut

My 5th great-grandfather, Lancelot Larkham, is, to me, one of my most fascinating ancestors, because nearly everything I know of him, I’ve discovered on my own. I have a number of Lancelot's original personal documents (his apprenticeship indenture, land deeds and letters) in my possession -- items which were passed down to me from my mother's side of the family. These documents truly inspired my interest in genealogical research. I simply had to find out who Lancelot was!

The Rhode Island and eastern Connecticut Larkhams are a fairly elusive family, with no published genealogies that I’m aware of, yet evidence of them can be found throughout the records of eastern Connecticut and southern Rhode Island. They intermarried with many of the early settlers of Rhode Island and Connecticut -- the Adams, Colegrove, Crandall, Gorton, Greene, Larkin, Morgan, Palmer, and Witter families. Lancelot Larkham was the patriarch of a large number of descendants who migrated from Rhode Island and Connecticut to upstate New York, Pennsylvania, Michigan, Oklahoma and further west -- wherever new land became available in the country.

In my two decades of research, I have been amazed to find that virtually every Larkham who spells their name precisely this way -- Larkham -- is a descendant of Lancelot. Being the mother of boys, I supppose my connection with Lancelot began when I read his apprenticeship contract and thought of him as an 8½-year-old boy whose mother placed him in an apprenticeship to learn the trade of weaving. Here's what I have learned about Lancelot's life:

Rhode Island Beginnings
(1740-1779)

Lancelot Larkham was born 20 November 1740, the son of Thomas and Frances Larkham of South Kingstown, Rhode Island (Burdick, 1935). Although Lancelot's place of birth is not recorded, his father, Thomas Larkham, witnessed a land deed in South Kingstown on 26 February 1739, and Thomas Larkham appears several times in South Kingstown town records in the early 1740s, so Lancelot must have been born in South Kingstown. Aside from his birth date, the earliest record of Lancelot is found in an indenture for his apprenticeship on 7 July 1749. His mother, Frances Larkham of "South Kingstown in Kings County in the Colony of Rhode Island & Providence Plantation in New England woosted corner", indentured Lancelot, age 8 ½, as an apprentice to two weavers, Joseph Enoss and his wife Margaret (Webster) Enoss of Richmond, Rhode Island. Joseph Enoss, in his fifties at the time he took on young Lancelot as an apprentice, perhaps needed additional help because most of his own children were grown and on their own.

In the apprenticeship contract, Lancelot’s term of indenture was very specific: 12 years, 4 months and 13 days. When calculated, I discovered that Lancelot's apprenticeship would be over on 20 November 1761, which I later learned from family records was the date of his 21st birthday. It is significant that Frances Larkham signed the indenture and not Lancelot's father, Thomas. Thomas Larkham enlisted in Captain Edward Cole's Company in the campaign against Canada, King George's War on 8 July 1746 and died 4 September 1746, having served 58 days, wages due 1£ 6S. He apparently never left Fort George on Goat Island in Newport Harbor.

In 1749, Frances Larkham as a single mother probably struggled to provide for her children, which is likely why she put Lancelot into an apprenticeship at the tender age of 8 ½ years.  The average age of apprenticeships in 18th century New England was 14 years. It is probable that Lancelot had a younger sister named Elizabeth, because an Elizabeth Larkham was recorded as marrying William Rees on 16 August 1767 in South Kingstown by Dr. Joseph Torrey of the marriages he performed from 1736-1783 in "A Record of the Names &c of the persons joyned together in Marriage by Joseph Torrey Pastor of the Chts: Christ in South Kingstown."  Considering the rarity of Larkham records in 18th century Rhode Island annals, Elizabeth Larkham must have been related to Lancelot, Frances and Thomas Larkham.

What is Known about Lancelot Larkham's Parents

It is fairly certain that Lancelot's father, Thomas Larkham, was not born in Rhode Island.  He first appeared in South Kingstown records in 1728 with no apparent connection to any other family in the American colonies. Based on Thomas Larkham's associates in Rhode Island, it seems likely he was involved in the flourishing maritime trade of the early 18th century and came to Rhode Island that way.

The most plausible explanation for Thomas Larkham's origins is that he was a descendant of the controversial Puritan minister, Thomas Larkham, who came briefly to Dover, New Hampshire in 1636-1642, and had a grandson, Lancelot Larkham.  Reverend Thomas Larkham’s son, Reverend George Larkham (also a “non-conformist” minister), was the father of this Lancelot Larkham, who was born 29 November 1661 in Cockermouth, Cumberland, England.  The name Lancelot appears to come from the family of Dorothy Fletcher, wife of George Larkham and mother of Lancelot Larkham of England.  Her father was Lancelot Fletcher, who descended from a line of several Lancelots in the Fletcher line.  According to the Dictionary of English and Welsh Surnames with Special American Instances by Bardsley, the name Lancelot “was very common in Cumberland and N[orth] England generally for many centuries.” By contrast, the name, Lancelot, was not common in 18th century New England, and even rarer in 18th century Rhode Island, so the name may be a significant clue to the origins of Thomas Larkham.

Even more compelling is Reverend George Larkham’s bequest to his son, Lancelot, in his will, dated 10 January 1699 and proved 17 March 1700:

Itm My will is and I doe hereby bequeath to my Son Lancelot for a Legacy Ten pound; Itm to his Son Thomas (my Grandchild) Ten pound, To be due for him; in order to his bringing up to some trade; And I hope his parents will not defraud him &c.          

Could this grandchild, Thomas, be Thomas Larkham of South Kingstown, Lancelot's father?  Certainly the naming of the early Rhode Island Larkhams, Thomas and Lancelot, is consistent with the family line of Reverend George Larkham, son of Reverend Thomas Larkham.   There are other similarities between Thomas Larkham of South Kingstown and the family of Reverend Thomas Larkham. There is plenty of evidence that the grandsons of Reverend Thomas Larkham traveled the trade routes between England, the West Indies, and the American colonies; and there are some personality parallels as well: Reverend Larkham and his grandsons tended to reject authority and get into trouble. It's not completely clear what Thomas Larkham of South Kingstown's infraction was aside from being posted by the South Kingstown Town Council for an incident involving strong liquor, it was severe enough to be carried over to postings for several years.  For more information, see Thomas Larkham of South Kingstown and the Larkham Family of Rhode Island and Connecticut.

On the other hand, it seems likely that Lancelot Larkham's mother, Frances, was a local girl that Thomas Larkham met when he came to Rhode Island. The parties involved in the apprenticeship of Lancelot may have had a significant relationship to Frances, whose maiden name is unknown. 

Lancelot was apprenticed to Joseph and Margaret Enos, weavers of Richmond.  The indenture was witnessed by Anna Kinyon and John Webster.  These four individuals were connected in several ways, and because of this and the fact that they were party to young Lancelot's apprenticeship, I have to wonder what their relationship was to Frances:  

  •  According to Marjorie Webster Schunke, who wrote A Line of Descent from John Webster of Westerly, it is "possible that the Margaret Webster who married Joseph Enos in Westerly 20 Sep 1716" was a sister of John Webster (who was a witness to the indenture).

  • Anna Kinyon, who also witnessed the indenture, is no doubt Anna (Barber) Kinyon, wife of Sylvester Kinyon.  There were several documents during the mid-1700s in which John Webster signed as witness along with either Anna Kinyon, Sylvester Kinyon, or both of them.  In fact, on May 15, 1749, all three witnessed the will of John Enoss.

  • John Webster married, for his first wife, Sarah Kenyon, a sister of Sylvester Kinyon (husband of Anna Barber Kinyon).

  • John Webster's eldest daughter, Hannah Webster, married Ezekiel Barber, Anna (Barber) Kinyon's older brother.

  • John Webster's youngest daughter, Elizabeth Webster, married John Kenyon, son of Sylvester and Anna (Barber) Kenyon.

  • John Webster's youngest son, Thomas Webster, married Patience Adams, born ca. 1745 in Richmond, daughter of John and Patience (Hall) Adams.  Lancelot Larkham married 1763-1765, Prudence Adams, born 29 July 1741 in Richmond. I believe it's very likely that Prudence Adams was another daughter of John and Patience (Hall) Adams and a sister to Patience (Adams) Webster.

Despite these relationships, I have not been able to connect the dots of these families to Frances.  Records for this time period, especially for women, are not perfect, however Frances Larkham remains a mystery.

Coming into Adulthood

In 1759, when Lancelot was nineteen years old (two years before his apprenticeship was to end), he entered service in the Old French and Indian War with the Rhode Island Regiment. According to a sworn disposition signed by Jonathan Maxson, Lancelot served in Colonel Harris’ Regiment in 1760, and was at the capitulation of Montreal under the command of Jeffrey Amherst. Lancelot is also on record as having served in Colonel Rose's regiment in 1762. (I originally assumed that Lancelot's service in the war meant that he didn't complete the full term of his apprenticeship to Joseph and Margaret Enos, however several wise sources enlightened me to the fact that war service in colonial days meant going off on an expedition for a few weeks at a time, returning home to work as usual inbetween.) Joseph Enoss died in November of 1762 when Lancelot was twenty-two years old.

 In 1763, Lancelot married Prudence Adams of Richmond, Rhode Island (Burdick, 1904). Prudence was probably a member of the large Adams clan of Richmond, which descends from the Scotsman, James Adams, of Lynn, Essex County, Massachusetts. Over the next twelve years, Lancelot was admitted as a Freeman of the town of Richmond and subsequently served in at least two public offices. Records indicate that Lancelot was a weaver as well as a farmer by occupation. During this time, the Larkhams acquired land, established a farm and began a family that was to eventually total seven children.

In a 10-year period of time, Lancelot acquired at least 150 acres of land: On 30 October 1765 Lancelot purchased 50 acres of land from Benjamin Herrington, yeoman and his wife Mary of Richmond. On 19 April 1766, Lancelot purchased 12 ½ acres of land from Benjamin Herrington, physician, and his wife Hannah, of Richmond.  At superior court in South Kingstown on 3 February 1774 William Bentley, yeoman, ordered John and Barsheba Bissel to relinquish their right to 160 acres of land in Richmond, which Lancelot, along with his neighbors Nicholas Larkin and Paul Herrington, purchased for 8 pounds 5 shillings. It is presumed that the land was divided equally among the 3 men.. On 18 November 1775, Lancelot purchased 49 ½ acres of land from Nathan Kinyon.

On April 16, 1766, at the age of 25 ½, Lancelot was admitted as Freeman by the Richmond Town Council. On June 5, 1770, the Richmond Town Council elected him to serve as Surveyor of Highways and Viewer of Fences for the ensuing year. On June 4, 1771, the town council granted him “eight shillings and three pence for timber to repair the Chapp’l Bridge”and “one pound sixteen shillings and two pence for the repairing of the Iron Worker Bridge” in Richmond. In 1777, Lancelot was listed in the Rhode Island census for males over the age of 21 who were eligible to serve in the (Revolutionary) war although it’s still not clear whether he actually fought in the Revolution. At the May 19, 1777 meeting of the Richmond Town Council, Lancelot was selected to serve as “Grand Juryman ... to attend on the Inferior Court of Common Pleas to be Holden at South Kingstown within and for the County of Kings County on the Second Monday in August next.”

Six of Lancelot and Prudence’s seven children were born in Richmond and are recorded in Richmond town records as the offspring of Lottanset Larkin and his wife Prudence.

 
Births of the Children of Lancelot and Prudence Larkham

Created from a scan of a microfilm copy of the original record from Richmond Land Evidence, Volume 1, Page 74.

Transcription

The Time of the Berth of the Children of Lot lanset Larkham & Prudence his Wife of Richmond in Kings County in the Colony of Rhode Island is as followeth to wit:
1 John Larkham son is the above said Larkham & his wife was Born March 18th Day AD 1767 & the fourth Day of the Week
2 Thomas Larkham son to the above Larkham & his wife was Born March the 15th day AD 1768 & the Third Day of the Week
3 Sarah Larkham Daughter to the above said Larkham & wife was Born May the 13th day AD 1769: & the seventh day of the Week
4 Joseph Larkham son to the above Larkham & wife was Born September the 19th day AD 1770 & the fourth Day of the Week
5 Prudence Larkham Daughter to the above said Larkham & Wife was Born August the 24th Day AD 1772 & the second day of the Week
6 Lot Larkham son to the above said Larkham & wife was Born March the 14th day AD 1774 & the first day of the Week
Registed July the 6th dy 1775 pr Thos. Lillibridge T Clerk

The eldest child, John (who may have been named after Prudence's father, John Adams), was born in Richmond on 18 March 1767. The second son, Thomas (who was probably named for Lancelot’s father, Thomas Larkham), was born on March 15, 1768. Daughter Sarah was born on May 13, 1769. Joseph (who may have been named after Joseph Enoss), was born September 19 1770; Prudence, was born 24 August 1772; and Lot, Jr. (my 4th great-grandfather), born 14 March 1774. A seventh daughter was born after the fmaily moved to Voluntown, Connecticut.

Voluntown, Connecticut
(1779-1821)

On 11 March 1779, Lot and Prudence Larkham signed and sealed a land deed for the sale of 60 acres of land to Samuel Larkin of Richmond for one thousand two hundred pounds. This was a significant step in their move 15 miles northeast to Voluntown, Connecticut. On 17 November 1779, Lancelot and Prudence’s seventh and youngest child, Patience, was born in Voluntown. By all accounts, Lancelot and Prudence Larkham established a farm in Voluntown, and remained there for the duration of their lives. U.S. census listings place Lancelot in Voluntown, CT. from 1790 -1820. In three land deeds, dated 1794 - 1795, Lancelot continued to acquire Voluntown acreage along the southeast shore of Beach Pond, land which had originally belonged to the Winthrop family. Although the Larkhams technically lived in Voluntown, Connecticut, their Beach Pond farmland was right on (or very near) the Rhode Island border. The Larkhams maintained strong ties with Rhode Island. Lancelot (who was now going by the shortened name, Lot) and Prudence are both listed among the members of the First General Baptist of Richmond in 1770. They were later listed among the members of the North Kingston (RI) Six Principle Baptist Church: Lot joined the church on 4 September 1784 and Prudence joined in October 1786. On 17 September 1810, Lancelot, his son John, and John's family re-joined the First General Baptist Church of Richmond. The records of Prudence, (who was by then deceased), were taken from church membership on 17 September 1810.

Prudence (Adams) Larkham died at 59 years of age 21 October 1799 (Burdick, 1935). A little more than two years later, on 3 December 1801, Lancelot, age 61, married a 53-year-old woman named Hannah Larkin (Burdick, 1935).

Who Was Hannah Larkin?

The handwritten family records of my great-grandmother how that Lancelot Larkham married a woman named Hannah Larkin on 3 December 1801, and that she died 24 April 1825 at the age of 77.  This would have placed her birthdate at 77 years of age.

Hannah Larkin Larkham death

In the abstracts of Rhode Island wills of the Rhode Island Genealogical Register is listed in Volume 7, page 155:

"LARKHAM, Hannah, widow, of Voluntown, Windham Co., Conn. Will dated 19 Oct 1821, proved 14 June 1825, pgs 265-266. Mentions : Nephew Hannah wife of Jabez Palmer of Ho. Witn: Samuel Peckham, Ezra Palmer, Lydia Palmer."

Given her marital status,place of residence, and the dates when the will was writted and proved, this surely must be Hannah (Larkin) Larkham, the second wife of Lancelot Larkham. The Hopkinton Historical Association lists the following abstract of Hannah's will:

LARKHAM, Hannah – PR 5:265, Will written 19 October 1821, proved 14 June 1825. “of Voluntown, CT.” (record states nephew) Hannah Palmer, wife of Jabez Palmer. Nephew and trusty friend, Jabez Palmer, to be executor. Witnesses; Samuel Peckham, Ezra Palmer, Lydia Palmer.

These entries provide a couple of clues to Hannah's identity. She names both Hannah, wife of Jabez Palmer, as her "nephew", and she also names Jabez Palmer as her "nephew and trusty friend". It wouldn't be unusual for one of the couple to be Hannah's blood relation and for her to name her nephew or niece's spouse as her relation as well.

This couple is surely Jabez Palmer, Deacon of the Baptist Church of Exeter, Rhode Island, born  11 June 1782, son of Ezra and Mary (Newton) Palmer. He married Hannah Clarke, daughter of  Thomas and Sarah (Case) Clarke in 1807. If Hannah (Larkin) Larkham was the aunt of Jabez or Hannah (Clarke) Palmer, she would be the sibling of one of their parents -- either Ezra Palmer, Mary Newton, Thomas Clarke, or Sarah Case.

Fortunately, the parents of these four individuals are known.  Ezra Palmer was the son of Amos and Mary (York) Palmer. Mary Newton was the dughter of Matthew and Elizabeth (Eggleston) Newton, Thomas Clarke was the son of Elisha and Abigail (Tillinghast) Clarke, and Sarah Case was the daughter of Joseph and Sarah (Mumford) Case. A review of the families of these couples doesn't reveal a Hannah born about 1748, however there is a 7-year gap in the births of the children of Joseph and Sarah (Mumford) Case, where Hannah Larkin would fit. Thomas Case was born on 30 September 1746 and Sarah Case was born on 08 October 1753. Hannah could easily fit between these two children, however there is no record to substantiate this relationship.

The End of Lancelot Larkham's Life

In the 1820 census, "Lot Lancet" Larkham of Voluntown had living in his household, one female aged 45 and older (Hannah, who would have been about 72), one male, aged 26-45 and one female, aged 10-15. It's still not clear who the young man and girl were living in Lancelot and Hannah's household in 1820.

Lancelot died less than a year after the 1820 census was taken. The date was 10 January 1821 and Lancelot was 80 years old. Lancelot's will, which he wrote on 3 December 1819 and was proved in January 1821, names his wife Hannah (for whom he gave explicit instructions in his will that she be adequately provided for); his grandson John Larkham, son of his son John Larkham, deceased; his son Thomas Larkham; daughter Prudence Hymes; daughter Sarah Colegrove; daughter Patience Witter; grandson Lot Colegrove (to whom he bequeathed his great bible); grandson Erastus R. Larkham; grandson Lancelot Larkham, son of his son Lot Larkham (to whom he bequeathed his weaving loom and accessories); and his son, Lot Larkham, who he named as executor of his estate. Lancelot and Hannah (Larkin) Larkham had been married for 19 years at the time of his death.. Hannah died 4 years later, on 24 April 1825 at the age of 77.

[At various times, Lancelot's name has been spelled Lanceselot, Lott, Lasonlet, Lottanset, Lot Lancet, and Lanselot. VITAL RECORD OF RHODE ISLAND 1636-1850, Births, Marriages and Deaths, by James N. Arnold, Vol. 5., Washington County, Richmond Births, lists him as Lottanset Larkin. The Larkham surname has had just as wide a variety of spellings (Larkham, Larcom, Larkum, Larkcom, Larcomb, Larkam, as well as being confused for the surname, Larkin).

*Woosted Corner may have been a textile mill village in South Kingstown, since woosted is the old term for worsted wool. The name might be indicative of the type of fabric woven at the mill.

Sources

Arnold, James N.. Vital Record of Rhode Island 1636-1850

Barbour, James N. Births, Marriages and Deaths, Barbour Collection of Connecticut Vital Records

Brayton, Isabella Weer. Notes transcribed by Hartford, New York Town Historian, (great-granddaughter of Thomas Larkham and great-great-granddaughter of Lancelot Larkham) sent to me by her daughter, Sylvia Van Anden, current town historian of Hartford, New York.

Burdick, Sarah H. Clark. Transcription of Larkham Family Records. Ca. 1935. In the possession of Sally Russell Cox. Available online at  https://sites.rootsweb.com/~sallycox/sarah_clark_larkham_bible_transcriptions.html and https://sallyrussellcox.com/genealogy/sarah_clark_larkham_bible_transcriptions.html

Chapin, Howard M. Rhode Island in the Colonial Wars

Family records written in the Asher Palmer bible, in the possession of Sally Russell Cox.

Probate Records for Voluntown (Norwich District), New London County, Connecticut LDS Family History Microfilm # 1310573, pp. 185-192).

Probate Records for Voluntown, (Plainfield District), Windham County, Connecticut.

Rhode Island Land Evidence Records South Kingstown, Rhode Island Town Council Records

The documents of Lancelot, Lot and William H. Larkham in the possession of Sally Russell Cox.

Town Council Records of Richmond, Rhode Island South Kingstown

The written content on this page represents many hours of research on my part. Much of the information on this page is not available in public records. Please ask my permission before using this information in any other source. Thanks!

 
My Larkham Ancestry
  The Larkham Family of Rhode Island and Connecticut
  Carrie Estelle Larkham of Canterbury, Connecticut
  William H. Larkham of Voluntown and Canterbury, Connecticut 
  Lot Larkham of Voluntown, Connecticut 
  The Last Will and Testament of Lancelot Larkham of Voluntown, CT.  
  Lancelot Larkham of Richmond, Rhode Island and Voluntown, CT.
  Frances Larkham of South Kingstown, Rhode Island
  Thomas Larkham of South Kingstown, Rhode Island
 

 

The English Larkhams
  Lancelot Larkham of Cockermouth, England
  Thomas Larkham, Cousin of Lancelot Larkham of Cockermouth   
  Thomas Miller, Cousin of Lancelot Larkham of Cockermouth
  Reverend George Larkham of Cockermouth, England 
  Reverend Thomas Larkham of Tavistock, England

 

     

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